The Audacious Black Girl Podcast

Therapy Note Series- "How to Move On When You Can't (or don't want to) Forgive"

Season 4

What happens when you can't forgive someone who's done the unforgivable? The reality is, you don't have to! In this episode, I talk about how you can move forward when forgiveness isn't something you can or want to give.   

In this episode:

  • How performative forgiveness isn't authentic 
  • Why your forgiveness is a jewel
  • Healing first,  forgiveness is optional
  • Four ways to move forward when you can't/don't want to forgive

Journal/meditation questions from the episode:

  1. Am I healed enough to forgive?
  2. What will forgiveness provide me/the other person?
  3. If I do forgive, what comes next? Can I set boundaries to protect myself from that person hurting me again?
  4. What has that person done to be worthy of my forgiveness? Have they made amends to me?

Have a topic or question you want me to explore? Please email me at amanda@audaciousblackgirl.com!

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Have a topic or question you want me to explore? Please email me at amanda@audaciousblackgirl.com!

Download my FREE Rest Mode Meditation Here!
Follow us on Instagram @audaciousblackgirl